OxytocinAddiction: I am very tempted to text you asking you to come and tie me up and fuck me tomorrow morning/noon, before my date and party and before your party. I am resisting, but tempted.
The Poet: Why not just ask?
OxytocinAddiction: Will you come over and do dirty things with me sometime between now and tomorrow at three, when I have to go back to being a mature adult? ;)
The Poet: If I can get some time away, Yes. Anything in particular you want?
OxytocinAddiction: No. Lots. I am sure we can figure out something that will please us both. Basically, I have a date with a great, yet vanilla, guy tomorrow. And then I get to spend the evening playing poker with Americana grad students. And I really just want good sexual contact with someone who gets how that life isn't satisfying. :)
OxytocinAddiction: If you end up being busy, it isn't like this is a one time offer. Just really craving carnal contact right now. :)
The Poet: What toys and accessories do you have?
OxytocinAddiction: In town I have little. The safe parts: Lube, condoms. A vibrator. Most of my straps and ropes went away with someone a while ago. :(
The Poet: This is terribly sad, since most of my toys are currently inaccessible.
OxytocinAddiction: Does a lack of toys imply a lack of pleasure?
The Poet: No. I just prefer to be wellarmed.
OxytocinAddiction: Is there anything you aren't allowed to do? Within the confines of your relationship?
The Poet: What do you mean?
OxytocinAddiction: I don't fall asleep with men I don't consider my primary. I have met guys who can't use certain toys or participate in certain acts. Just making sure there weren't restrictions that weren't discussed.
The Poet: I can't spend the night out, other than that no.
OxytocinAddiction: Well, sounds like we have similar guidelines, and ones that should not apply here. :)
The Poet: Indeed. To be honest I would prefer if you took the lead.
OxytocinAddiction: Took the lead or took the position of top? Two slightly different things. And to clarify... plain vanilla play with no toys or ropes can be plenty hot.
The Poet: Lead. I'm fine with top or switch. I just would prefer you take the initiative.
OxytocinAddiction: I am fine with that. I am pretty much a switch, although being all tied up is something I couldn't go a lifetime without. :)
The Poet: How opposed are you to play objectification?
OxytocinAddiction: I am okay with trying anything at least once with a new partner. Although my experience has been poor in the past. Anything specific?
The Poet: Not really. I like verbal reinforcement though.
OxytocinAddiction: Like I said... I get noisey. But that verbal response can be directed however you like. ;)
The Poet: Noise is great. Saying exactly what you like and directly me is awesome as well.
OxytocinAddiction: I share the sentiment. Communication makes for great play. ;)
The Poet: Good. Just so you understand I'll really need you to take the lead and communicate often the first time, till we can get a feel for each other.
OxytocinAddiction: As long as you communicate back, I think you will find that I have no problem with communication or going for what I want. I just have to be sure I want it. Which I am pretty sure of at this point. :)
The Poet: Then go for it.
OxytocinAddiction: Now I just have to catch you. :)
The Poet: Then you should create a proper lure.
OxytocinAddiction: I already set out games of Scrabble, pretty good conversation, plenty of flirtation, and a direct request to come do dirty things with me. Plus, I am relatively cute. If that doesn't work, I am running low on tricks. ;)
The Poet: Relatively?
OxytocinAddiction: Well the cultural beauty standards don't love the buzz cut.
OxytocinAddiction: I was hotter with the mohawk. :)
The Poet: I believe it. Though you definitely don't look too bad now. :-)
OxytocinAddiction: I am glad you don't buy the cultural/gender beauty norms. It makes luring you in easier. ;)
The Poet: Meh. I still think one of the most beautiful things in the world is a woman bound.
OxytocinAddiction: I still think I feel sexiest when bound. So that works well.
The Poet: What are your feelings on masks and head coverings?
OxytocinAddiction: Never tried them. And at some point you have to laugh.
OxytocinAddiction: Blindfolds have proven fun in the past, though.
OxytocinAddiction: Honestly... I am up for almsot anything you can through my way. But I will tell you if I am not. :)
The Poet: Night.
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